Monday, June 20, 2005
The right time to start looking for the ideal partner
For the ones who wish to get married, regardless of sex gender, this is for you.
When we were little, we always watched drama series that show all the working adults engaging in love relationships, such is not a common sight anymore. The Singapore that we are living in now has already started dating galore since we were 12 years old. Even primary school children know the meaning of how to start
"going steady". Lol. *guffaws* Like how they know what is love man...
In my opinion, if you want to have a good career or if you want to work in a career where most of your time will be devoted to work, I think you should find a partner when you are between 19 - 24. That's probably when some of you will be starting a new job, and probably the responsibilities of a job are not high enough to keep you in the office working till 9 or 10pm. Back in the days at NCS when I was having my attachment, many high ranks had to work till like 9 - 11pm at night. How are you gonna date a guy at the night time man? He don't need work ah? He also need to sleep early and gear up for his job the next day mah! This is why you need to confirm a good partner when you are younger! When you end work, he can pick u up or vice versa, and just grab a quick dinner at your home or his or outside and rush home! Any small amount of time spent is well cherished and sufficient what. Cause you don't have to waste time talking about your hobbies, your own introduction about yourself that the fella you date have to find out about you. Instead, you focus on how's your day and how's his day and gossip and chit chat about some crap lah. Simple and easy conversation! In the IT line that is, you must be prepared to lose sleep over projects. That's not a very uncommon sight right friends? Hmm, so start searching for a partner when you are free! When you are studying, you lose a guy you cannot stand, that's fine, there's a plenty of fishes outside in the school to see too! You can club and meet new guys, you hang out with your girlfriends' friends who can be men too.
Many of you would say "Can find a fella in workplace too!". But how many workplaces in Singapore do allow relationships to bloom in work environment? I think their policy might not be flexible enough to let you have an affair sia, and what's worse, if kena find out, you might lose your job! Who will want to fall in love with a man like 10 years your senior! Or even start having an affair with a married man! We cannot let that happen! So, start to gao-dim your love life, then gao-dim your career, cause that very steady steady long long boyfriend of yours should most likely be the one who will support you when you are scaling greater heights in your career path!
Erm, of course such things need fate and destiny and being at the right place at the right time to see the right guy. But, at least give yourself more chances to see, seek and meet! I bet the government will love my article cause I believe that every Singaporean should be entitled to having a blissful family life, with a good career too mah! Say goodbye to low marriage rates! Say goodbye to low coupling rates! Say goodbye to lonely old folks and old folk's homes and single room blocks
(eg. those in Braddell got those old folk stay alone there kind) if you listen and try my idea!
Start walking/shopping more often! Start being more friendly and smiley and establish close friends' ties! Friends are the ones who will give you a good time outside and also the right ones who will keep you happy most of the time. Being positive and happy, you will have a glow on your face and you will meet nice people too!
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