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Tuesday, May 31, 2005

Perfect is never enough.

This holiday, I gave extra attention back on my favourite past times such as watching movies (be it on dvd or vcd), reading books and magazines, downloading extensive season's episode of the OC, One Tree Hill... ahh... the joys of having nothing better to do. It also reaffirms the fact that everytime I do such hobbies, I am having a great time in my holidays, and I learnt something out from every movie I watched.

Last sunday I watched Stepford's Wives, which is way long overdued since I couldn't seem to catch it during the hectic schedules I have back in school. I was utterly disappointed actually, as I wanted to watch the Notebook more than that show lah. But don't know why that video shop doesn't have the Notebook. But at least, wow, that stepford wives show was boy oh boy, interesting. I don't think I'm gonna dwell on the storyline because you peeps can go Yahoo and type "Stepford Wives" and click on the very first search result for detail synopsis about the show. Hah.

It taught me to realise that being perfect is not right. We will never be contented with what we have because we crave for something better. Give me Swensen's Sticky Chewy Chocolate, and I'll want Ben and Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Brownie. We want a loving boyfriend who gives you 100% attention and listens and hangs onto every single word you say, we expect them to speak intelligently and sound like every other girlfriend of yours will be saying "Oh, he's very good to you, he's perfect for you!" But in reality, women just have a problem with men. We're all born uniquely different! We have a mentality that he should not sound aloof when they speak to our parents, for we all want our family to adore him. We want him to buy you a gift suddenly out of surprise because he heard you mentioning "Oh I'm gonna buy this if I've the money..." Likewise, the men themselves have their inner desires and wants from us. They'll want us to be the good ol' girly woman who wears bloody attractive and showing all legs and cleavage for other men who take a glance at you thinking "Boy that man's so lucky to have such a sexy tight ass for a girlfriend." They'll expect us women to be all condescending and nice saying "Anything is fine honey, we can eat anything you like." And put up with the smelly smokey hawker centre ordinary fare we eat cause they bloody have no money left in the bank accounts. Well, we don't see our men complaining so much have we?

It's high time we start thinking positively that wanting a perfect partner in life is hardly possible. However, we can always start hoping our current partner as the one who can make you happy, that he'll be dependable on, or that he does other matters that other men can't do (eg. listens to your grouses and tries his damn best to cheer u up). For men, we can start seeing the sweet little things their women can do, (eg. handmade cookies or sweet messages to your mobile phones). Women will always have a ear for you, they can even stop shopping for a day and do the things you like, aiyo that's very good already okay somemore now GREAT SINGAPORE SALE leh. I mean cmon, I'm sure there's a positive thing in everyone, or even everything we buy! haha any chocolate icecream is bound to keep me delirious and high from joy after eating, doesn't matter what it is!

Yeah, I'm heading for a holiday, byeeeeee!!!

Reg is a reader.
12:30 PM

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